domingo, 29 de maio de 2011

Fala demais por não ter nada a dizer

É muito fácil dizer que a dor do outro está sendo superestimada, enfatizada demais, que é drama, exagero. Difícil é dar uma palavra de conforto a essa pessoa e se mostrar disposto a ajudá-la.
É fácil afirmar que problema mesmo é o que você está vivenciando, que isso sim é motivo para se estar triste, quando nem sabemos, realmente, pelo o que o outro está passando.
Julgamos, julgamos e julgamos. Mas quantas vezes procuramos saber o que realmente está se passando? Brigamos quando quem está ao nosso lado mais precisa é de carinho e atenção.
Exigimos, muitas vezes, a mudança no comportamento dos outros, mas é totalmente descartável a possibilidade de ser um pouco mais flexível e tentar adequar-se(só um pouco) a vontade das outras pessoas.

Autor: Celso Pimentel

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38 comentários:

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  2. concerteza, é muito mais facil dizer que a dor dos outros é exagerada e que nossos problemas sempre sao maiores
    as pessoas ainda nao aprenderam a ser compreensiveis


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  6. Estou te seguindo
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  8. Ameei a frasee,,tudoo a veer!!

  9. Muitas Vezes exigimos das Pessoas a Mudança...Mas realmente esquecemos que agente tem que Mudar Primeiro*"! Aprender a lidar com as Diferenças*"! Antes de Julgar tentar Ajudar"! Conhecer Melhor o que a outra pessoa está SentindoO"!

  10. As pessoas falam, se desembaraçam dos outros, mas é porque falar para consolar é SE ENVOLVER e isso ninguém quer. Ninguém está disposto a suportar a dor do outro, ou a ajudar a suportá-la.

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  12. Muito bom cara.. Me disse o que eu precisava ouvir.
    Muito interessante o blog Parabéns a quem teve a ideia :D

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  14. nossa isso é a pura verdade
    FACIL julgar as pessoas o DIFICIL é ser julgado

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